Guest Views: Reasons to Consider Adoption

May 22nd, 2010

I found a really neat article posted online by a catholic blogger about reasons to consider adoption.  She listed forty, but for simplicity sake, I’ve reduced it to the ones I found most interesting or fun.

REASONS TO CONSIDER ADOPTION:

Kids are natural virtue builders. They are the perfect antidote to self-absorption and an inordinate sense of self, and bring out (sometimes by force) untapped stores of patience and gentleness. Not to mention humility.

They add laughter and affection. Whether it’s the sight of Sarah clad in glittering loungewear and sunglasses, or feeling one of them snuggle close at Mass, children are natural day-brighteners.

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The Testimony of Adoption

May 17th, 2010

Today, I heard a lady who said that her friend’s story of adopting was her “Jesus Story.”  Now, many who read this post will understand that – but others won’t.  People who choose to make Jesus Christ the center of their lives often are watching for how that makes a difference – how they can see God’s hand at work in their lives.  This lady apparently felt like the story of adoption she experienced was just such a story.

Once I got over the “awwwww” factor of how sweet it all sounded, I started asking if adoption was my “Jesus Story.”  I think there’s more to it that a simple yes or no.

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The Adoption Need

May 9th, 2010

Over the last number of months, my wife and I have been reminded of the need for adoption.  Recently at a fundraiser for a local crisis pregnancy center, abortion statistics were offered.  In certain minority communities, over 3/4 of all pregnancies are ending in abortion.  This is staggering when you think about it.  Based on this statistic, it’s easy to see the crisis.

No matter how you feel about the options available to women in difficult situations, the thought that it would be so extensively used is hard to fathom.  What drives a woman or a couple to make such a decision?  How hard it must be to feel such loss of hope, such misery, such deep anguish.  But, there is hope – and telling others in any way possible about adoption shares much of that hope.

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